actually i figured it out guys... chcek it out and feel free to use it in the future...
-- this script queries employee table for lastname~firstname
-- birthday in mm/dd/yyyy format
-- ssn is formatted with dashes. e.g. 123-45-6789
-- lastname~firstname will convert to lastname,firstname
declare @SSN as varchar(11)
select replace(replace(name,'~',','), CHAR (10), '') as name,
convert(char(10), birthdate, 101) as bday,
Left(SSN,3)+'-'+Substring(SSN,4,2)+'-'+Substring(SSN,6,4) as ssn
from employee
where status = 'A'
order by name
the above converts the birthdays from yyyy-mm-dd to mm/dd/yyyy, ssn from 123456789 to 123-45-6789 and lastname~firstname to lastname,firstname and of course limits results to those employees that are "ACTIVE" status