first, as I say here over and over and over, technical questions should be asked over on the "community" web site, because that's where the community hangs out.. it's just me, here..
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second, tweaking the BDE settings rarely does anything, in any context, except making matters worse..
from your description, I'd suspect the blob file itself, long before anything else.. blob files are often VERY unstable, and repeated updating of a table like that can easily cause problems with the blob file..
whenever possible, it's much safer to have a regular field in a table, that points to an external file that you open with the default "viewer".. Word for doc files, Excel for xls files, etc.. yes, it sounds like more work, because it *is* more work, unfortunately