thank you all for your help, i relly appreciate your help.
my problem is with this:
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The user has an option to receive all sites message's in one message, I mean all sits he is registered in.
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for example if the user has registered in site1,site2,site6 all the messages will be merged, and will be send as one message.
my question is how to know witch compinaion of sites did the visitor used when he registered . it my be site1,site2 and site8 OR it my be site1,site6 and site3
if the user choose the first option –to receive every site message alone- there is no problem, but, if he choose the second option –to receive all messages as one message - I will face a problem.
I hope this showed you were the challenge is.