those
are foreign key relationships in those two linking tables
they are the most efficient and "best practice" way of implementing a many-to-many relationship
if each incident can involve one or more persons, and each person can be involved in one or more incidents, and if each incident can involve one or more cases, and each case can be involved in one or more incidents, then that's exactly what you need -- many-to-many relationships
i don't think your friend needs to have anything explained to him
