You should have two HADR ports on each server, and they are flip-flopped, so that HADR_LOCAL_SVC on the primary is the same as the HADR_REMOTE_SVC on the standby.
The HADR_TIMEOUT of 120 is high for NEARSYNC. I usually use 30 seconds, but you could go a little higher if there is some reason to, but probably not past 60 seconds.