Wow, this is a difficult question. Let me recap:
- you use 16K pagesize now and you want to convert to a smaller size
- the row does not fit into a 4K page
- IBM default pagesize is 8K now
No sorry, serious now

Did you try to use separate tablespaces for "normal" data and LOB's? Like this:
Code:
create table whatever
(col_this ...
col_that ...
) in your_04K_tablespace
LONG in your_16K_tablespace ;