I think what you should do is to change the protocol you're using at the server-side to the same ( onsoctcp ) as you're using at the client. The change is done in the onconfig file found at %INFORMIXDIR%/etc .
You would find the parameter you're looking for named NETTYPE.
set this to soctcp,1,,NET.
There is also a tool called setnet found in your %INFORMIXDIR%/bin
used to setup the parameters for the server.
I'm using WINNT for my servers, so some things may differ a bit, but the idea is the same.
Hope this helps.
Regards
/Ralph