Maybe you need to change to a different web host? With hosts I have used MySql admin area allows setting authorized machine domain for remote access. Then I can remote in to the server and do data sync using
SQL Yog Program.
HTTP / SSH Tunneling - Manage MySQL even if your ISP disallows remote connections
Hmmm. This is what it says on the
SQL Yog web site. So it may be possible to do remote access this way even if your host does not give support for remote access. I havn't tried it so can't say for sure it will work?
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