hi guys,

i was wondering if anyone can help me out here. I have a Virtual D-Server and php and mysql works well. i have another server else where and i want other server to connect to my MAIN server database, it just refuse to connect. what's the problem here?
has this got anything to do with the Privileges?
if so, i've added the other server ip address in and it doesn't work too.
my mysql add is http://xxxxxxx.com/phpMyAdmin

so what should i input to

$sql_host="";

i'm using phpMyAdmin 2.8.0.4 and MySQL - 3.23.58

Please help.