agree with Rudi
autonumber columns / identity columns are system generated.. they have no meaning outside the system itself. if you are trying to force an exteranl meaning onto such a column it will fail.
if you need to have sequential numbers then you need to develop a stratgey to generate the nnext availabel number.. its been covered inthis trhead, and other trheads on this forum ad nauseam.
however to answer your question....
first off are you not bothered about hte third missing number in your set?
you could send a series of sql queries counting the number fo records in each set untill you find the missing gaps
the SQL would be something like select count(<mycolumn>) as NoRecs from <mytable> where <myautonumbercolumn> >x and <myautonumbercolumn> < y
you could do it by writign a bit of quick & dirty code or do it in something like MySQL Query Browser. if you satrted off say with a range of a hundred it woul failry quickly narrow down where the problem is, then make the range say 10's.. equally ytou can size a query window so that the display is in a simple multiple (Id suggest soemthign like displaying 20..40 records.. do a page down untill the last record on the screen is no longer in the sequence you expect. it may be quicker that say writing a bit a of code