you don't need two separate computers to use a database server, if say you are using it for development or small scale projects. you can quiote happily install 'server' software (such as a web server, database server, or similar on the same physical PC as you develop on. heck quite a few ISP's run the database server onthe same physical server as their customer websites.
locate the software you need.
if you 'just' want a database server then download the latest version of MySQL from their
website
if you are planning on doing web development then there's a lot to be said to install the
XAMPP installation which comes with a webserver and god knows what else.
if you have something like a NAS you may be able to run the servers on the NAS or RAID server.
After you have installed the server software you then have to make certain that its running, and any GRANT any permissions to the required required user(s) on the required computer(s) to the required database(s). you can do this the old way. go on the computer with the server installed, open a command line client, switch tot eh MySQL doirectory and type MYSQL and read up on the
GRANT command or you can use a tool such as MySQL Workbench which incorporates modelling, admin and query browser tools in one piece of software.
there are varioius steps to take
first make certain the server is active (check the system process and look for mysqld)
ideally run the admin tool on the same computer as the server is on.
create wahtever db's you ned
create whaterver user accounts you need (there doesn't need to be a one to one mapping for physical users to MySQL users, especially if its a small home development server but in a production / live environment you may want to give some consideration to your users and respective permissions to whatever databases from whatever computer(s), often the computer is speified as either an IP address or IP mask eg 192.168.1.*
make certain the firewall for the relevant ports on the server are open
run workbench on your development / other computer, see if it connects with a specified user and password. if so then change the password on the super user account 'admin', BUT take note of what you have changed to in case you need super user access. grant admin priveleges to another user account. follow good practice on securing the
server