Create a form with a list box thats control is set to that query. Once the form is opened by the user (by clicking a button or similar) this will prompt the user to enter the name and then they will be presented by the list. Ensure that your list box properties are set to have enough columns and displays the column headings and you are away.
I have been asking the same queston about double clicking one of the enties in the list box to take you to that record and have got several responses which i am still trying out. Search for my name in this forum to see the returns,
Regarding the synchronisation of your list with another form: why not make that other form a sub form and link the sub form key with your list box key. This way Access takes care of the synchronisation for you. I've never done this myself but can see no reason why it would not work.