two days ago, I post a topic concerning the difficulties I had to connect to a remote server with the entreprise manager. I decided to install it again. I want to be sure of all the parameters I need to succeed, this time , my connection.

first in the client network utility :
creating a new alias, instead of his name using of the IP adresse, diasble the automatic port choice and select the 1433 port.

in the entrprise manager
add a new SQL registration select, the new one.

do I have to uncheck the pol server in the EM option? or not

in the property of my connection I diasbled the firewall of XP.

that's all but is not enought
so if you you I forgot something tell me, or if I have ell done too tell me, because since two days I have try so many things I don't know which are good or not.