When I try to connect to MySQL on one of my servers using EMS MySQL i get "Lost connection to MySQL server during query" when using the servers IP as the host address. When i try to connect to MySQL from shell mysql -h IP -u root -p doesnt work i get the same error. When I use mysql -h localhost -u root -p it works fine. This leads me to believe the EMS MySQL needs more then just an IP as the HOST. Anyone know what I am doing wrong?