I am a newbie, so be kind...AND PLEASE HELP ME....

I just installed MySQL 4.0.13 on WinXP and can start the mysqld-nt service but when I execute any command line option - mysql, mysqlshow, mysqladmin all I get is this Error 2013.

This is what my.ini in \windows looks like:

# Example mysql config file.
# Copy this file to c:\my.cnf to set global options
#
# One can use all long options that the program supports.
# Run the program with --help to get a list of available options

# This will be passed to all mysql clients
[client]
host=vaio
user=root
password=margie
port=3306
socket=MySQL

# Here is entries for some specific programs
# The following values assume you have at least 32M ram

# The MySQL server
[mysqld]
port=3306
socket=MySQL
skip-locking
set-variable = key_buffer=16K
set-variable = max_allowed_packet=1M
set-variable = thread_stack=256K
set-variable = table_cache=4
set-variable = sort_buffer=64K
set-variable = net_buffer_length=2K
server-id = 1
skip-name-resolve

# Uncomment the following if you want to log updates
log-bin

# Uncomment the following rows if you move the MySQL distribution to another
# location
basedir =D:/mysql
datadir =D:/mysql/data


# Uncomment the following if you are NOT using BDB tables
skip-bdb

# Uncomment the following if you are using Innobase tables
innodb_data_file_path = ibdata1:100M
innodb_data_home_dir = d:/mysql/ibdata
innodb_log_group_home_dir = d:/mysql/iblogs
innodb_log_arch_dir = d:/mysql/iblogs
set-variable = innodb_mirrored_log_groups=1
set-variable = innodb_log_files_in_group=3
set-variable = innodb_log_file_size=5M
set-variable = innodb_log_buffer_size=8M
innodb_flush_log_at_trx_commit=1
innodb_log_archive=0
set-variable = innodb_buffer_pool_size=16M
set-variable = innodb_additional_mem_pool_size=2M
set-variable = innodb_file_io_threads=4
#set-variable = innodb_lock_wait_timeout=50

[mysqldump]
quick
set-variable = max_allowed_packet=16M

[mysql]
no-auto-rehash
# Remove the next comment character if you are not familiar with SQL
#safe-updates

[isamchk]
set-variable = key_buffer=8M
set-variable = sort_buffer=8M

[myisamchk]
set-variable = key_buffer=8M
set-variable = sort_buffer=8M

[mysqlhotcopy]
interactive-timeout

[WinMySQLAdmin]
Server=D:/mysql/bin/mysqld-nt.exe
QueryInterval=10